Of Lessons and Disappointment
What do you do when you get disappointed? Make things better? Or just let it go?
Someone once commented that it is easy to guide the smart. The challenge? making someone slow or less talented see the light, that can be so much more fulfilling.
I had allowed myself more time following the incdent so many days ago to decide. I had waited to ponder before letting go, i had waited to see a shimmer of light emerge from the broken soul
There is a thin line between not knowing and not wanting to know, the former can bring along qualities such as willingness to learn, hard work and determination. The latter, brings along laziness, lack of determination, lack of confidence, a "bochup" attitude, a slacker way of life.
I think i have come to a conclusion, that some people are just not worth the trouble. It is not a question of ability, it is an issue of not trying hard enough and breaking down when the pressure builds.
We all live in a world of expectations and perception, and it has become apparent after 2 weeks of observation that "lacking in ability" is in fact a mask for laziness and low confidence, more of the former, less of the latter
i shall not elaborate, for to each's opinion, we can derive many answers and point of view, but i am sick of complying, i trust my judgement that "he, who is not worth the effort, will be allowed to rot"
To the kid i scoff, "Lessons are learnt the hard way boy, pity, i won't bother to share no more"
I choose to let go
Someone once commented that it is easy to guide the smart. The challenge? making someone slow or less talented see the light, that can be so much more fulfilling.
I had allowed myself more time following the incdent so many days ago to decide. I had waited to ponder before letting go, i had waited to see a shimmer of light emerge from the broken soul
There is a thin line between not knowing and not wanting to know, the former can bring along qualities such as willingness to learn, hard work and determination. The latter, brings along laziness, lack of determination, lack of confidence, a "bochup" attitude, a slacker way of life.
I think i have come to a conclusion, that some people are just not worth the trouble. It is not a question of ability, it is an issue of not trying hard enough and breaking down when the pressure builds.
We all live in a world of expectations and perception, and it has become apparent after 2 weeks of observation that "lacking in ability" is in fact a mask for laziness and low confidence, more of the former, less of the latter
i shall not elaborate, for to each's opinion, we can derive many answers and point of view, but i am sick of complying, i trust my judgement that "he, who is not worth the effort, will be allowed to rot"
To the kid i scoff, "Lessons are learnt the hard way boy, pity, i won't bother to share no more"
I choose to let go
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